Reader Question:

Hi David,

I am 60 yrs . old, very healthier, very energetic, and a rather great woman. I got an extremely cold wedding looking for sugar momma more than 30 years. I joined up with Match.com whenever We separated, had a few dates (these were terrible), then one popped up. I’ve dated him don and doff for just two years. He explained the guy really likes me personally, but he disappears constantly. We see him for a couple times, following he’s gone for two to three days. He had been married for 30 years and has now three children (just like myself) and claims he has got devotion issues and is also watching a therapist about it. Their girlfriend cheated on him and then he features medicine and liquor problems.

Should I look at this man to-be harmful? If he contacts me personally once more (that we suspect he’ll), ought I simply tell him never to contact myself any longer, or must I just tell him I enjoy being with him but are making my personal choices ready to accept time other people?

-Nancy (California)

David Wygant’s Answer:

Should you take into account this person toxic?  No.

I would think about him become a booty phone call.

That is all they are.  He is a booty call.

He does not want to make.  He’s discovering plenty of reasons, yet somehow he loves to come over and fool around.

Whenever a person really does that, all he or she is undertaking is utilizing you as a sexual partner.

Confront him on it if you need, but a person like him could make right up some form of story to not be cut-off intimately.

Thus move ahead and  get a hold of someone who is deserving of you.

The full time you’ve been throwing away thinking about him being with him is time you may be fulfilling a fresh guy.

Take pleasure in the procedure!

David